Shake it out...

"Regrets collect like old freiends...here to relive you darkest moments..." - Florence and the Machine

Too Cynical...? Please!

I've been told that I'm too cynical. I don't think that at all. I just think that I'm strong and I'm smart. I'm not stupid,weak,or naive. If a dude thinks that being strong and smart makes me cynical because I won't bow down to him and/or let just anyone in then I'll take it. I'd rather be a hard-headed,cynical bitch than a stupid little delicate excuse for a female in this day and age. Strong/Smart females are hard to find so if and/or when you find one you should treasure her because we're the last of a dying breed and one day you'll have to visit a museum to see what a real lady looks like...

The last line is a little reference from Behold A Lady by OutKast

Realize what you have...

The best time to realize what you have is while you have it, not after.

Silent tears

Silent tears always speak...

You can't fool yourself

You can act like there's nothing wrong,you can even fool the world of it but you can never fool yourself that there is.

So many locks,not enough keys...

Its a lot easier to be lost than found. It's the reason we're always searching and rarely discovered so many locks,not enough keys.

Weak spot? Everyone has one.

Everyone has their weak spot. One thing that,despite your best efforts,will always bring you to your knees regardless of how strong you are otherwise.

Complete waste

You seemed like a good idea at the time,no doubt.... but you ended up being a COMPLETE waste of time! No big surprised there!

AMEN to strength!!!

I was not born or raised weak so don't ever expect me to act like it. I'm not acting tough,I am tough...Now toast to all the bitches,lames,losers and douche-bags that made me this way! AMEN!!!!!!

Knowing what I want isn't being too picky...

I 've been told lately that I'm too picky. Since when does knowing what you want and don't want make you too picky. I'm not sorry that I'm strong and that I won't settle for less than I'm worth. I'm not sorry if my strength bothers you. I am sorry,however, that you're weak and that it's sad. I'm sorry that you don't think you deserve more in life. I'm just at a point in my life where I'm getting too old for games,for playing around. I'm on my grown woman status...I'm not a kid anymore.

Method to my madness...

There's always a method to my madness. I know when a dude is real or not. So if you've been trying to talk to me for a long time and you haven't gotten anywhere with me it's because I'm not stupid! Sorry you got the wrong girl. It takes more then you telling me I'm pretty to get me.

Fake people...Not me,I don't deal with them.

I hate when people make you out to be the bad guy and then ask about you later when they run into someone who knows you. You obviously didn't care enough when you cut me off for no reason so why would you care enough 7 months later? Go screw yourself. I shut fake people down with a quickness!

Believe in Love...???

Believe me when I say that I do believe in love. I just don't think it rules the world or should be the main thing. I love myself,my family,and my friends. They are all I need.

The best you never had...

I still wonder how someone who had nothing when I met them could still,to this day,think they're better than me... Think they're too good for me. You might be trying to make yourself believe that to be true,but anyone who knows the real truth,knows you're full of it. One day you will regret it,when you really see the kind of people are out there,when you realize what you had in me and what you could have still had. One day you'll look back and label me as the one you played,the one you messed up with,the one you hurt,the one you let slip through your fingers. You'll label me as the one you let get away. I'll be the best thing you never had. Letting me go will became the biggest mistake you ever made!!!!

Bad in people...

If you look for the bad in people expecting to find it, you certainly will.- Abe Lincoln

Lies run....

Lies run sprints, but truth runs marathons.

Your best friend...

Falling for your best friend really is the best person to fall for... The best relationships really do spring from friendship...because there's no surprise as to who that person is and who they have always been. Because you know them with all their faults,likes, & dislikes. Because you know who they truly are and how they think. Because they know you,who you truly are and love you just as that. Because you don't have to pretend with them or impress them. Because you already love them 100%,for longer and far beyond anyone you could ever meet in the future and they love you the same. If you have a friend like that,how could you ask for anything more in a partner? What could you ask for?

Who Am I?

Who Am I? I am strength. I am confidence. I am beauty. I don't need anyone's validation...I am my own validation. Can you break me? Nope,you can't and you never will...

Why don't I have a boyfriend...?

So I got asked why I didn't have a boyfriend the other day and this is what I answered...

Because I'm in a very committed relationship with myself that I have been in for 24 years and no one can love me better or as much as I love myself. So it's gonna take a really special,amazing and different kind of guy to change that!

The red thread is so much shorter when you're near...

An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet,regardless of time, place, or circumstance.The thread may stretch or tangle,but it will never break....- an ancient Chinese belief